HIS WAY OF BONDING...........
Before coming to the explanatory part let’s go for some interesting subjective stuffs. Scientifically, the system which has required or released more energy in its formation is relatively more stable. Philosophically, things which are the greatest, requires the greatest effort too in its creation. In our day to day life importance and priority is higher for things we get more gruellingly.
Some general observations:
A child gets sick much more frequently than adults....
women are more delicate as compared to men.....
children don’t take care of their parents as they are expected to and the same children when become parents take extreme care of their children unconditionally....
birth of a child is the most painful phenomenon in this world.....
Now what if..................
a child takes birth without any pain and lives without miseries.......
we get things as easily as we think of them......
men and women would have been given same strength and same approach & thinking to everything......
there would have been only homo sapiens , no man n woman....
there would have been no sorrows in life .....
Yes , you may have got the gist of my write up but still I would explain the things I briefed above because I really have a strong bonding with this topic and I still have many things in ma mind which I would love to share with you .....
I shall speak of something we call “achieving pleasure through pain” since we all know that pain when mastered to extremes becomes the greatest source of religious ecstasy. Everyone enjoys suffering knowingly or unknowingly and never admits to it when asked by anyone (even himself).
Everyone loves to be a sadist (and masochist sometimes) and never admits to it as it is defined to b a psychological disorder...
Dint you ever bother to read the news of miseries, deaths and sufferings of people around the globe in newspapers (be honest please), did u never love the failure n fall of others, be it ppl around u or a political party’s debacle or be it ragging in colleges.... (Think of other things m sure u shall get plenty of dem which I can’t quote as its ur personal way of being sadist)
Next lines would be dedicated for removing the loose ends of all things stated above......
When I thought to write on a topic like this, after thinking for a long time for the heading I came across words like LOVE, Attachment, care, pain, pleasure blah blah....
but when I thought about all these words I came to realize that all these words are simple ways that help us in having n continuing complex relations. So I settled with the topic -- HIS (GOD’s) way of bonding (people).
People say : ”Kiss me , kiss me as if it were the last time” because they want to feel the pain of being separated and people are at their best when it is the end.Why I don’t think it’s needed to be explained after indulgence into such a heart touching topic.
it is meaningless to say a girl is perfect or a boy is perfect unless they are perfect for each other, unless the bonding between them is perfect and GOD’s way of bonding is a process which contains many transient painful states and the law: more is the pain, more is the energy change, more stable the bond is a gospel.
This is the only thing which is real in this world ....every one of us work so hard, wants to be the best, suffers a lot to achieve something ...why?? Because all of us want to create stronger bonds with people around us (to be loved by parents, frnds, neighbours etc.)
It is they who make us want to be better men, they never tell us to walk on fire but we walk just because we love to walk.
Exploiting the fact that humans have a tendency of being attached to things they get toughly God has created paths whose toughness is directly proportional to the amount of love and attachment expected from the connected ends.
SO GUYS.....
This is just a small message
to all woman and man
There is just a small expectation
as I wrote not only to entertain
He won’t always be there
to remind you again and again
Miseries and sorrows
will never go in vain
its you who must realize and say
that you would never complain
When there is a pain
there must be a chain
more is the pain
stronger will be the chain
Which will definitely lead you
to things you want to attain
When I used to say these earlier
people called me insane
But after reading this
wont you say.............
GOD GIVE ME PAIN.......
GOD GIVE ME PAIN....
Thanks a lot for the effort u took in reading this. Please comment if it really touched you................
Before coming to the explanatory part let’s go for some interesting subjective stuffs. Scientifically, the system which has required or released more energy in its formation is relatively more stable. Philosophically, things which are the greatest, requires the greatest effort too in its creation. In our day to day life importance and priority is higher for things we get more gruellingly.
Some general observations:
A child gets sick much more frequently than adults....
women are more delicate as compared to men.....
children don’t take care of their parents as they are expected to and the same children when become parents take extreme care of their children unconditionally....
birth of a child is the most painful phenomenon in this world.....
Now what if..................
a child takes birth without any pain and lives without miseries.......
we get things as easily as we think of them......
men and women would have been given same strength and same approach & thinking to everything......
there would have been only homo sapiens , no man n woman....
there would have been no sorrows in life .....
Yes , you may have got the gist of my write up but still I would explain the things I briefed above because I really have a strong bonding with this topic and I still have many things in ma mind which I would love to share with you .....
I shall speak of something we call “achieving pleasure through pain” since we all know that pain when mastered to extremes becomes the greatest source of religious ecstasy. Everyone enjoys suffering knowingly or unknowingly and never admits to it when asked by anyone (even himself).
Everyone loves to be a sadist (and masochist sometimes) and never admits to it as it is defined to b a psychological disorder...
Dint you ever bother to read the news of miseries, deaths and sufferings of people around the globe in newspapers (be honest please), did u never love the failure n fall of others, be it ppl around u or a political party’s debacle or be it ragging in colleges.... (Think of other things m sure u shall get plenty of dem which I can’t quote as its ur personal way of being sadist)
Next lines would be dedicated for removing the loose ends of all things stated above......
When I thought to write on a topic like this, after thinking for a long time for the heading I came across words like LOVE, Attachment, care, pain, pleasure blah blah....
but when I thought about all these words I came to realize that all these words are simple ways that help us in having n continuing complex relations. So I settled with the topic -- HIS (GOD’s) way of bonding (people).
People say : ”Kiss me , kiss me as if it were the last time” because they want to feel the pain of being separated and people are at their best when it is the end.Why I don’t think it’s needed to be explained after indulgence into such a heart touching topic.
it is meaningless to say a girl is perfect or a boy is perfect unless they are perfect for each other, unless the bonding between them is perfect and GOD’s way of bonding is a process which contains many transient painful states and the law: more is the pain, more is the energy change, more stable the bond is a gospel.
This is the only thing which is real in this world ....every one of us work so hard, wants to be the best, suffers a lot to achieve something ...why?? Because all of us want to create stronger bonds with people around us (to be loved by parents, frnds, neighbours etc.)
It is they who make us want to be better men, they never tell us to walk on fire but we walk just because we love to walk.
Exploiting the fact that humans have a tendency of being attached to things they get toughly God has created paths whose toughness is directly proportional to the amount of love and attachment expected from the connected ends.
SO GUYS.....
This is just a small message
to all woman and man
There is just a small expectation
as I wrote not only to entertain
He won’t always be there
to remind you again and again
Miseries and sorrows
will never go in vain
its you who must realize and say
that you would never complain
When there is a pain
there must be a chain
more is the pain
stronger will be the chain
Which will definitely lead you
to things you want to attain
When I used to say these earlier
people called me insane
But after reading this
wont you say.............
GOD GIVE ME PAIN.......
GOD GIVE ME PAIN....
Thanks a lot for the effort u took in reading this. Please comment if it really touched you................
